This is the year 2019 where several people are taking charge of their lives and being intentional and deliberate about it. To “do you” simply means to live intentionally and unapologetic-ally. Trust me when I say there is no other or better way to live.
Sometimes, it feels like you are surviving and just passing through. Other times, it is as though you are not in control of your life. Believe me when I say, I know exactly how that feels. The honest truth however is, if you are not intentional about your life, things will just happen to you. Things that might affect your life positively or mostly negatively without your hand in it.
If this is all sounds similar, I can give you three tips on living an intentional life.
1. Make your choices
I don’t know what is more delicious than making your own choices and standing by it. Now do not misunderstand me, I have not said you should not listen to others, but be very deliberate and certain in your choices so you can live with whatever comes out of it.
2. Have a destination
Your life should not be about “let’s see how it goes” or “I’m just flowing either ways”. If you want to flow, be certain of the wave current that will bother you. If you want to see how it goes, know exactly the bend it gets and you won’t be comfortable.Live a life that has a destination in mind, live it intentionally and work your butt off to get there.
3. There is no right or wrong
In this process of living for you. YOU get to decide what is right or wrong. There is no moral compass except your heart and goals. You get to live a life for you that pleases you. A little selfish? Maybe.
Those are my three starter tips and I present them to you freely as you choose to make them a foundation to living for you.
It is the best way to live and it brings about a level of contentment. It is a continuous process but if done according to your terms, it is definitely worth trying.
Will it hurt to live so?
In all this,Simply remember adapalava’s slogan for the year.
Do you,
ALWAYS.
